Christmas has been around for a long time. There are a thousand ways of telling the Christmas story, each slightly different because it came from a slightly different time, place and culture.
The oldest stories we can find go back thousands of years, to celebrations of early Europeans who celebrated light and birth during the darkest and coldest times of the year—winter solstice, hoping to bring about the next season when light, growth and warmth would return.
This celebration changed into a time of feasting in Scandinavia when the Norse celebrated Yule starting on December 21. They would light huge logs and feast until the logs burnt out. The best logs could last up to 12 days!
Sometime later, as Christianity was spreading through the world, it brought with it new reasons to celebrate. The celebration of the birth of Jesus didn’t have a fixed day until Christian leaders decided to match dates with the ancient holiday happening during winter and call it Christmas. As this new holiday, a time of gift giving and family togetherness, spread around the world, Santa Clause was born. This jolly man, with his bag of toys, quickly became the story many people told their children about Christmas.
Today, the story and meaning of Christmas is a little different in each part of the world. Here in Australia, our story is quite unique. Christmas is during the middle of summer. We can hardly build snowmen and we try to avoid lighting fires. Families meet together for outdoor cricket, BBQ’s, beach trips, Carols by Candlelight and late night drives to look at houses covered in lights.
No matter where you are in the world, one thing remains the same on Christmas. It is a time of giving. Gifts are given by parents to children. Families pass plates of delicious food. People participate in donating gifts to their community. Churches provide free meals for struggling families and individuals. At Christmas, everyone should feel joy and love.
May you have a wonderful Christmas
as you share your gifts with others.
May your family be blessed and joyful
as you share conversation and food.
May you experience peace and love
as you consider the Christmas story.
And may the Christmas story you tell
bring new life, meaning and purpose to all.
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Saturday, December 24, 2016
Saturday, December 17, 2016
The Naughty List
I was chatting with a grade one boy in the last week before the Christmas holiday.
"How are you today?" I asked.
"Not good," he said.
"Why not?"
"I'm on the naughty list!" He crossed his arms and dropped his eyes to the floor.
"The naughty list? What does that mean?" I asked.
His little head jerked up and he looked at me like I was the most ill-informed person on the planet. "It means I don't get any presents!"
I threw my hands up in the air, “What? That’s not good!” Leaning forward I asked, "Can you change it?"
His eyes came to life, "YES! I'm being really good, NOW!"
I nodded, wisely. "What are you doing different?"
"Not hitting my brother and not yelling at Mum."
I nodded again. "That sounds like a good start. Are you doing good stuff, too?"
Now he nodded. "Yup. I help Mum with stuff and clean up my mess."
I put my hand over my heart and leaned back in my chair. "I can tell you something really exciting!"
"What?" he asked, his eyes fixed on mine.
"You're getting off the naughty list!" I smiled.
"I know." He said, resolved. “But it’s hard.”
“Doing the right thing often is,” I said, “but it’s worth it, right?”
“Yeah,” he smiled. “I can’t wait to get my presents!”
"How are you today?" I asked.
"Not good," he said.
"Why not?"
"I'm on the naughty list!" He crossed his arms and dropped his eyes to the floor.
"The naughty list? What does that mean?" I asked.
His little head jerked up and he looked at me like I was the most ill-informed person on the planet. "It means I don't get any presents!"
I threw my hands up in the air, “What? That’s not good!” Leaning forward I asked, "Can you change it?"
His eyes came to life, "YES! I'm being really good, NOW!"
I nodded, wisely. "What are you doing different?"
"Not hitting my brother and not yelling at Mum."
I nodded again. "That sounds like a good start. Are you doing good stuff, too?"
Now he nodded. "Yup. I help Mum with stuff and clean up my mess."
I put my hand over my heart and leaned back in my chair. "I can tell you something really exciting!"
"What?" he asked, his eyes fixed on mine.
"You're getting off the naughty list!" I smiled.
"I know." He said, resolved. “But it’s hard.”
“Doing the right thing often is,” I said, “but it’s worth it, right?”
“Yeah,” he smiled. “I can’t wait to get my presents!”
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